Turning Challenges into Opportunities: Making Your Mess Your Message

Just Something #25

"Make your mess your message." - Robin Roberts

Just Something More #25

I was listening to Robin Roberts Master Class and heard this phrase. What she means by this is, we all have bad things happen to us, but how can you take that tough situation and turn it into a message to help others, an opportunity to be an advocate, or the chance to help someone else feel not so alone.

December 1st, is a day I will never forget. This was the day my son was born, and I never would have thought that my "mess" would come from my son being born. Eli was due on January 31st, 2016, but came into the world on December 1st, 2015. It was an incredibly scary day and a scary journey of 40 days in the NICU. I'll get to the punch line; he is 100% fine. Eli is a strong little man who is caring, funny, loves to dance, and just be around people! This "mess" created the opportunity for me to get involved with March of Dimes and become an advocate for healthy pregnancy and a mission to reduce premature births. I also have been able to help other moms that have gone through the same thing as me. We all have "mess" that comes in our life, and we get the chance to choose what we do with it. I thought all the thoughts of "why me" and then I pinched myself and realized everything will be okay. It's time to make something good out of a tough situation. Happy 9th Birthday Eli! The world is a better place because of you!

Embracing the Mess

Life is full of unexpected challenges and tough situations. These moments can feel overwhelming and disheartening, but they also present opportunities for growth and transformation. By embracing our mess and turning it into a message, we can find purpose in our struggles and inspire others who may be facing similar challenges.

Transforming Challenges into Advocacy

When Eli was born prematurely, it was one of the most frightening experiences of my life. However, this challenging situation became a catalyst for positive change. I became involved with the March of Dimes, advocating for healthy pregnancies and working towards reducing premature births. This advocacy not only helped me cope with my own experience but also allowed me to support and connect with other mothers going through similar situations.

Helping Others Through Shared Experiences

Sharing our stories and experiences can be incredibly powerful. It reminds others that they are not alone in their struggles and that there is hope and support available. By turning our mess into a message, we can provide comfort, encouragement, and practical advice to those who need it most. This sense of community and shared understanding can make a significant difference in someone's life.

Finding Strength in Vulnerability

Opening up about our challenges and vulnerabilities can be daunting, but it also fosters resilience and personal growth. When we share our mess, we show our strength and courage, and we inspire others to do the same. This vulnerability can lead to deeper connections and a greater sense of empathy and compassion.

Celebrating Growth and Positivity

As Eli celebrated his 9th birthday, I was reminded of the journey we've been on and the strength we've gained along the way. This experience has taught me the importance of finding the silver lining in tough situations and using those moments as opportunities for growth and advocacy. Eli's story is a testament to the power of resilience and the impact of turning a challenging experience into a positive force for change.

Dedication

In dedication to: My little premature Superman. I love you so much, Eli!