The Gift of Growing Older: Cherishing Each Moment

Just Something #16

Everyone gets to be young, but not everyone is lucky enough to grow old.

Just Something More #16

I heard this phrase the other day, and it hit me like a brick. This is a little deeper than I normally post and yet so appropriate in my mind. This reminds me of my dad. Doug Bollig had so many great qualities. He was an amazingly talented business owner, a kind and compassionate human to everyone he encountered, and the best husband, brother, uncle, friend, and most importantly, father. He didn't get to grow old enough. He spent a short 45 years on this earth. When I think back to his 45 years, though, he accomplished so much. He did more in 45 years than someone may do in a lifetime. He left a legacy and one that I have tried to follow.

What this statement says to me is that we don't know the end of our story. Growing old or older might be scary for some, but it's exciting to me. Every trip around the sun allows me to reflect on what I have done, what I have learned, and who I have impacted. I feel lucky to have been young and even luckier to continue to grow old. I can only hope to leave a legacy as great as my dad’s. When things get tough or frustrating, maybe consider how lucky you are to be growing older, how lucky you are to learn, to experience new things, and to impact more people.

Embracing the Gift of Growing Older

Reflecting on Accomplishments and Lessons Learned

Growing older provides us with a unique opportunity to look back on our lives with gratitude and pride. Each year, we gain experiences that shape who we are and what we stand for. For many, like my dad, the impact they make in a short time can be profound. His life, though brief, was filled with achievements and acts of kindness that left a lasting legacy. Reflecting on his life inspires me to appreciate my journey and the milestones I've reached.

Impacting Lives and Leaving a Legacy

One of the most beautiful aspects of growing older is the chance to influence others positively. Every interaction, no matter how small, can leave a lasting impression. My dad's legacy is a testament to this. His kindness, compassion, and dedication to his family and community continue to inspire me. As I grow older, I strive to carry forward his legacy by making a difference in the lives of those around me.

Finding Joy in New Experiences

Each year brings new experiences and opportunities for growth. Embracing these moments with an open heart allows us to continue learning and evolving. Whether it's picking up a new hobby, traveling to a new place, or simply trying something outside our comfort zone, these experiences enrich our lives and keep us young at heart.

Gratitude for the Journey

Life is a journey filled with ups and downs. Growing older means facing challenges and overcoming obstacles, but it also means celebrating victories and cherishing memories. When times get tough, it's important to remember how lucky we are to be on this journey. Each day is a gift, and with each passing year, we have more to be grateful for.

Living with Purpose

My dad's life reminds me that it's not the length of our years but the quality of our actions that matter most. Living with purpose, striving to make a positive impact, and building meaningful relationships are the keys to a fulfilling life. As I grow older, I aim to live with intention, following in my dad's footsteps and creating a legacy that I can be proud of.

Dedication

In dedication to: My dad, Doug Bollig, who taught me the value of living a life full of kindness, compassion, and purpose. His legacy continues to inspire me every day.